More than optimism

Optimism pulls on the noblest parts of our humanity. We are encouraged to always believe the best and always think positive. It is similar to the concept of looking at the glass half full as opposed to half empty. But I realize that optimism, if not grounded on something more foundational, could be a detriment to ourselves and others. 

 Optimism detached from realism is an unrealistic wish. 

How realistic are we with our optimism? It’s unrealistic to expect change by simply wishing things will change.  Instead of being optimistic, what if we focused on being real? 

What would “being real” look like for you?